I don't want to force you.
I don't want to embarrass you.
不能用reluctant, reluctant 指的是不太愿意做某事的一种心态。比如:
I was reluctant to get up so early that day.那天我不想(不乐意)那么早起来。
I'm not pushing you.
I don't want to strain you
I don't want press anything on you
你说的那个比较书面如
By 1982 they had become reluctant to extend new loans to public borrowers.
到1982年,他们已不愿向公共借贷者发放新的贷款。
I don't want to make/force you.
不能用,reluctant一般只不想或不愿意
我想这样翻译吧
I don't want to manage your~~
i don't really like to push you