People are talking about how to develop childern's independence ability a lot nowadays. It's not an easy job because for most of Chinese families they only have one child. Grandpas and grandmas take care of their grand with all they could give of course. Also, parents give the child everything they could afford as well. Under this situation, it's very hard to let childern be independence. From my point of view, the best way is let childern live far from home, study in a different city or even overseas.