A Psychology teacher as well as a master in Aikido once told us how the aikido master was trained.he said that as a first step,you would be asked to enter a room on which the slips of paper were pasted on the wall and then came the opponents from all quarters attacking you,all you need to do is reading the words and fighting at the sametime.I'll tell you why,because the most important part about being a kungfu master is no matter what happend,never divert you attention from your target.
Isn't our life the same?
Especially in china,the situation around you is pretty like facing your opponents,for example,you love your girlfriend very much and want to marry her,but her mother rush out and
yelling at you like giving a punch"perish the thought unless you got a house,that's terrible.or may be you graduated and got the Master degree.but you got miserably underpaid and the job is so easy,even a high shool student can do it,then you complaining to you boss"why the Low wages?"and the boss replied,heartbreakingly,"there are three or more candidates waiting outside,if you do not accept it, they will!"
So in china, your competitors are not 5 or less,it's 50 or 500 and even more,the game mode is not easy,On the contrary,it's hard very hard and probably the issue of survival.
you may not like the life you were living or the course you are studing or the college you were in ,but why don't you just creat your own road since these are not what you want,the key is nothing but to find your center.
Go for the experience that you'll never regret to make and great for you to look back even when you are 40,say owning a band,traveling around the world or a passionate and romantic love
Go for it,just do it,the youth is calling